For many white people, our biggest fear is to be called racist. I use the word racism because using it has freed me, has created more energy for the actual work of unlearning the behaviors and thinking that cause harm. You can find resources here for:
This free guide describes an actionable process for white people to use to work on racism and to talk to other white people about racism.
This started as a 5 day online challenge. It includes 5 short lessons toward loosening and lessening white fragility. Softening the Heart: A 5 day Journey to Unlearning White Fragility
The most recent Whiteness Card: an exploration and activity for unlearning some specific aspect of racism. There are options for discussion with others exploring the card and an opportunity to chat with me